A one-day project that never quite left.

  • Together, we remodeled the entire thing (yes - there’s an earlier version that never saw the light of day) and fought through what it could be and who it was for. 

  • We built the deck around five matriarchal species — the African Lion, African Elephant, Spotted Hyena, Orca (Killer Whale), and the Ring-tailed Lemur — each with their own brand of wisdom: leadership, connection, adaptability, empathy, and joy. But don’t expect soft, fluffy affirmations here. These cards were made for women who have seen some sh*t.

  • When we were developing the deck, my daughter and I recorded a conversation essentially asking, “What would a lioness do?” or “What would (insert your favorite matriarch) do?”
    Because a head lioness doesn’t get the luxury of second-guessing herself. She doesn’t sit around pondering if she’s qualified to hunt. She makes a call, takes action, and feeds her pride. That’s literally her job. There’s no overthinking when survival — or purpose — is on the line.

  • That became the heartbeat of this deck: a reminder that instincts are meant to be trusted, not tamed.

  • The Matriarch Deck isn’t here to fix you. You’re not broken.

  • It’s here to remind you that you’ve been powerful all along — even on the days you’re running on f*cking caffeine and spite.

  • So pull a card, take a breath, and channel your inner matriarch.

  • Because this deck isn’t about finding yourself — it’s about remembering who the hell you already are.

The Matriarchy
  • Together, we remodeled the entire thing (yes - there’s an earlier version that never saw the light of day) and fought through what it could be and who it was for. 

  • We built the deck around five matriarchal species — the African Lion, African Elephant, Spotted Hyena, Orca (Killer Whale), and the Ring-tailed Lemur — each with their own brand of wisdom: leadership, connection, adaptability, empathy, and joy. But don’t expect soft, fluffy affirmations here. These cards were made for women who have seen some sh*t.

  • When we were developing the deck, my daughter and I recorded a conversation essentially asking, “What would a lioness do?” or “What would (insert your favorite matriarch) do?”
    Because a head lioness doesn’t get the luxury of second-guessing herself. She doesn’t sit around pondering if she’s qualified to hunt. She makes a call, takes action, and feeds her pride. That’s literally her job. There’s no overthinking when survival — or purpose — is on the line.

  • That became the heartbeat of this deck: a reminder that instincts are meant to be trusted, not tamed.

  • The Matriarch Deck isn’t here to fix you. You’re not broken.

  • It’s here to remind you that you’ve been powerful all along — even on the days you’re running on f*cking caffeine and spite.

  • So pull a card, take a breath, and channel your inner matriarch.

  • Because this deck isn’t about finding yourself — it’s about remembering who the hell you already are.

The deck that doesn't sugarcoat it.

  • 50 cards. Five matriarchs - 10 cards each. Zero toxic positivity.

  • For women who've checked all the boxes and still feel like they're winging it.

  • Pick the version that works for you. The one you'll use most. The physical deck has arrived. The digital version's also ready.

The Matriarchy
  • 50 cards. Five matriarchs - 10 cards each. Zero toxic positivity.

  • For women who've checked all the boxes and still feel like they're winging it.

  • Pick the version that works for you. The one you'll use most. The physical deck has arrived. The digital version's also ready.

  • Our 2-Matriarch Team

    It's literally just the two of us. If you have any questions at all, one of us has the answer. shelley@thematriarchy.ca

  • Shelley S — Co-Creator

    Shel is a typical Hyena - a little weird. She's also Gen-X, so she stopped caring what you think...like a decade ago.

    She's a mid-life career changer who believes in second chances and that the only certainty in life (other than death), is that priorities change and you're allowed to change your mind.

  • Naomi K — Co-Creator

    Nay is an artist, an athlete and a musician.

    A true Orca, she doesn't cry about the rain. She pulls out an umbrella and gets the f*ck on with it.

    She believes strength trumps beauty.

    And that shrinking to make others comfortable is dumb.

  • Lewis K — Casual Observer

    Lew is literally not involved in this project. At all.

    But, like a typical Lemur, he's content with the simple things in life:

    Snacks in the fridge.

    A good rugby match on the t.v.

    And a slew of good(?) dad jokes to keep the mood light.

FAQs

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